what men should do facing the changes?

As women become more and more competitive in study and work,some men have been aware of the subtle changes in their positions and family roles.In the sense of foresight,it is time for us to think about what we need to do in facing this inevitable trend.In short,I have concluded two basical strategies--positive stategy and passive strategy.
The positive strategy for men is to try their best to recover what they have lost.It requires men to make more effort in school or in their occupations,which makes our society more competitive.And more intense competition means a faster development. It seems to be the better choice.However,it goes against the trend, which make it more difficult for women to develop their career so that it will slow the progress. Going upstream is always difficult. By contrast,the passive strategy is much easier.Since you cannot and should not stop the process,why not change youself to adopt to the changes?Especially,you need to do a lot of housework,just like your wife. That is, it time for us to learn how to cook. However, things never be too easy.On the one hand,we should prepare ourselves to accept the new roles. On the other hand, we should struggle to be more competitive in work.This is the "march on can attack,draw back can defend" strategy.