The conception of alpha girls was first created by Dan Kindlon, the psychological professor of Harvard University,in 2008,which refers to those girls who are not restricted by traditional sub-roles of being a female gender;on the contrary,they appear to be more talented and capable than boys.Since these girls or women are so excellent,even top,that they are defined by using the first Greek alphabet α.
Some good examples can be put forward to illustrate this phenomenon.In the USA,the students sexual rates in the universities began to reverse at the end of 1980s.Until 2005,girls made up 59% of those who were awarded honor diplomas.What's more,female power is getting stronger,with more and more female politicians shining on the global stage,as long as female scientists, lawyers, engineers.This phenomenon smashed the stereotype that top and high-tech domains should totally belong to men.Furthermore,Dan pointed out that in the USA about 20% girls cannot feel their being as female,which means that they have never been affected by their gender on social activities.According to her analysis, after the popularity of equal rights for both genders,these girls grew up under a totally fair environment,that's why we have alpha girls who take it granted to have the same status with boys.
When it comes to me, I'd like to focus more on the loving affairs of alpha girls.Frankly speaking,I grew up under a fair system where I received same education,attention and honor with boys.But should I strive for being as an alpha girl?Although α girls are glorious on many occasions,most of them are not going smoothly on their love.In Korea,there is a growing tendency for parents to send their boys to boy schools in order to avoid competing with girls,which seems to be ironic,leaving the α girls on the peak.Actually,α boys prefer to find a β girl,with a sense of superiority,which pushes α girls to date with β boys reluctantly.Under this circumstance,α are cautious to mention their excellence for fear of putting pressure on β boys.What's worse,more and more α girls are choosing to remain single.
Well,to sum up,there should be no hesitation for a girl to pursuing brilliance and prominence for fear of the negative effect.Every one is born to be equal,what we need is better understanding and significance from the whole society which should develop not only on economy,but also on broader mind and opinions.
wow,,,sister Zi~~i have to admit that your paragragh is really perfect!!! i do think that it has a profound sense. worship~~~~w
ReplyDeletehehe~~~thank you very much for your appreciation!!I do really have much opinion on this topic.muscle alpha LI!HOHO~~~
DeleteI agree, Wang Zi. Both genders should get equal opportunities in whatever they wish to do. The problem starts when one party or the other may not be happy about the situation and may demand more. But that's part and parcel of understanding relationships. Good luck.
DeleteWell,frankly speaking,my parents suggested my being β girl,which may be easier for a girl to go smoothly in the marital life.However,I think it's just a kind of stereotype,isn't it.You are right problem starts when one party is changing or even threatening the former status of the other one.But, all in all,girl also has the right to be the best!haha:-D Thank you !!
DeleteAlpha girl-haha! I have never heard it before. Thanks for you sharing, flower! Do you want to be a alpha girl??
ReplyDeleteHaha..Thank you for your appreciation.I used to want to be one,but the more I read about it the more worried I am.My parents warned me not to be one..isn't it funny...In their opinion beta girl is much enough.Do you wanna to be one?heihei
DeleteThe perspective of a girl gives me a great curiosity and ehjoyment in reading this blog.Luckily,you know your choice.Haha~Good wish!
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Delete:-DIt's my great pleasure that you got enjoyment from it.Luckily,you can pursue to be an alpha boy without hesitation.Good luck too!!I removed the last comment because I typed boy into girl,haha
DeleteThank you!
DeleteJust be ourself and be happy with it.I think everyone deserves a wonderful life,no matter how it develops~
ReplyDeleteMy dear Tianya..I can even imagine your tone of typing these lovely words.HOHO yes,I do agree with you,we should be what we want to be.:-D
DeleteHope you will achivement what you long for and be what you want to be:)
ReplyDeleteThank you the best wishes for you too!
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