Valentine's Day is around the corner and lovers can be seen everywhere to celebrate this significant festival. As an undergraduate student, it causes me to think much about the love in campus. Campus love is not a newly-born phenomenon nowadays. Some people may think it is quite natural for us undergraduate students, however ,I do not advocate it.
To start with, students，especially like us freshmen, are still not mature enough mentally. The main task for students is still study. Falling in love at this time will distract our attention towards the school work. As we can see, many students delay their studies because of indulging in love. They can not balance the relationship between their study and their emotion. Secondly ,many students choose to be together not because they really fall in love with each other ,but for the reason that they just want to find a way to kill their time or just want to find a person to company with them.some even just want to demonstrate their charming and fascination by changing their ‘partner’ continually. I do not think relationship like this will last long. Last , the possibility that they can get married after graduation is slim. Many students have to break up finally due to various reasons, like where to settle down after the graduation ,spending less time together owing to the heavy pressure on work .
To conclude ,for us undergraduate students ,when we are facing the emotional problems,we had better look before we leap . I think we are still young enough to wait for the right person in the future. So do not hurry. We can make a wiser choice after our graduation.
you have used many complex words and phrases to let your article be very good.However i do not totally agree with your idea. Perhaps we can be distracted when we fall in love,but i think the love life is a part of our university school students,and this love is very pure and wonderful. it is differdent from the love after we graduate.
ReplyDeleteI think what you say is very reasnable and it is true that there are many pairs of lovers in our campus in both Singa and China.But I also agree with Kaiwen that love is a part of our daily life in university.
ReplyDeleteAs one writer said: poetry and love are the most beautiful and romantic things in our university time.I don't think I want to miss them just because of the study.Otherwise,I am doomed to regret in my future.
ReplyDeleteI think that we don't need to avoid the right person if we meet in the university,because we are already adults to make our decision and deal with it properly.Love isn't doomed to distract our attention and influence our study.If we deal with it properly we will encourage each other and get success together I think.
ReplyDeleteI would agree with Shuwei that there's no need to 'avoid the right person' in university; however, I would also agree with Shuman that one should not enter a relationship just for company, or because it's 'hip' to be in a relationship, or for other similarly immature reasons. I think it really all depends on how ready a person is for a relationship, and whether both have the level of maturity needed. A couple can indeed inspire each other to work hard, but the reverse is also true; each can also distract the other, especially if one of them is not really serious about the relationship, or not serious about his/her studies. Shuman's advice to look before you leap is good! A person who thinks he/she is in love still needs to distance himself/herself from the situation and ask questions like: is this the right person for me? And am I the right person for him/her? Can I foresee us being able to build each other up or will we end up being bad for each other? Being in love is really wonderful, but a broken relationship is very painful, so it is good not to rush into a relationship. Take a little time to think.
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