The Ideal Husband

The Ideal Husband

Recently I am watching a TV play series called Beijing Love story, which narrates some stories about several young people living in Beijing. Though I have been gone through it terrifically slowly due to a lot of study assignment, it always readily fascinates me in a profound manner every time I turn to the videos. The love relationships in it are not all blessed or romantic, and additionally the plots are of much interesting and original points. By virtue of this blog entry, I am going to talk about the ideal love and the ideal husband in my point of view, which may be unrealistic or might seem too daydreaming, but I personally reckon it will hardly hurt if we enjoy daydreaming when we are still young enough to conquer the right.

I have heard about this kind of statement: “Even the most blessed couple will experience fifty times when they want to divorce and one hundred times when they have the thoughts in mind of killing each other.” It’s coming from someone’s mouth on a TV shoe which was probably too exaggerated in a sense. However, I do approve of the notion that the closest couple can still have significant conflict sometimes. For this consideration, I think the ideal husband in life must be well aware of it, keeping tolerant and good-tempered whenever a trouble comes into being.

Hopefully, I think the ideal relationship between husband and wife commands both sides to treat each other as considerately as treating themselves. I hope I will encounter such a gentlemen who is willing to care for me even more than caring about himself, and naturally takes it for granted. Likely, I have read something about it that impresses me a great deal. The male leading role in one of the novels of my favorite author once said to his sister, actually terribly drunk and full of sorrow in heart: “I merely feel like looking for a woman, who will love me with no extra conditions. I know it’s stupid, but I can’t help thinking what if such a person really exists? I just want to see if there can be a woman, who is willing to do anything, for the sake of me.” Yes, maybe it’s desperately stupid, but I can’t cease the stubborn thought in mind that people of indeed love with each other will behave in this romantically stupid way.

When we are alone drown in the crowds, losing the direction where we feel like going to, it will occur to us that if only someone appears beside ourselves all of a sudden and hold our hands tightly to dispel fear in the heart; when we trudge through the tedious life without promising hope supporting us, it came out again that if only there is someone just keeping us company throughout the whole life.