Thursday, 8 March 2012

 Love is Not Blind

 Love is Not Blind
Every girl dreams of a prince who will bring her to a dramatically romantic palace and fancinate her with all kinds of surprises every day.However,what if there is a boy standing behind you all the time when you suffer frustration without expressing his love through words?What if you cannot meet a handsome prince but a general boy who are willing to keep your company no matter whether you are young or getting old?
 
There is a girl called Huang Xiaoxian,who has just broken up with her disloyal boyfriend,struggling aganst a feel of depression;quite close to her there is a boy whose nickname was Wang Xiaojian(created by Xiaoxian actually),who doesn’t say a word to comfort her feeling but simply supports and probably loves her in an unnoticeable way.It’s a story of a Chinese film Love is Not Blind(失恋33),which makes an attempt to display a kind of relationship right between boyfriend and ordinary friend.
The film is an adaptation from a novel of the same name.As a matter of fact,the story is initially come into public’s sight on the Chinese website Douban.com,posted by a young girl called Bao Jingjing.It became popular immediately,and a good many netizens on Douban website chased after the lovely story and encourage the girl to continue finishing it.Then a moving novel came into being followed by the film mentioned above.
As a work of adaptation,the film is different from the original story for some parts.For instance,the ending of the film exposes an indication that Xiaojian is in love with Xiaoxian and is willing to care for her forever;nevertheless,in the novel,eventually Xiaoxian remains to be a considerate and close friend but maybe not a boyfriend in reality.Personally,though the novel’s ending shows an admirable relationship between the boy and the girl,I would like to trust the ending in the film rather than to drown myself in the sweet dream.
Having such a close friend of the opposite sex is truly desirable,but it’s more dramatical than being fantastic.I prefer to admit that Xiaojian devotes such a great deal to Xiaoxian simply because he loves her.However,I do believe that close friendship is the essential foundation of sweet affection,as Ms Khoo said this Wednesday Morning.Thus,hope every girl has a Wang Xiaojian,who will always hold her hands tightly no matter how much sadness the world has sent to her.

6 comments:

  1. after reading your blog, i am excited. i want to find a boy like that. i always think that whether there will be a boy supporting me no matter what happen to me and will always accompany me. i am sure one day we will all find the boys that belong to us.

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    1. Dear Mengnan,we are bound to get happiness as long as we keep being kind to the world,even if the boys guarding us never appear.

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  2. Taining you always have some new and profound ideas. I think you are a wise girl who face her life carefully with her heart.I have watched the movie and I agree with you that love is not blind if you chase it unremittingly.

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    1. Tianhang, thank you for your kind consideration for me. You are also a mild-hearted boy who is special and love is not blind to you as well:)

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  3. Your view of the story is very special and excellent,and I do agree that love is based on close friendship and trust.Wish you meet a boy like Xiaojian in right time.

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    1. Hope I can survive very well before encountering my Wang Xiaojian:)
      Thanks very much~~~

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