Love is Not Blind
Every girl dreams
of a prince who will bring her to a dramatically romantic palace and fancinate
her with all kinds of surprises every day.However,what if there is a boy
standing behind you all the time when you suffer frustration without expressing
his love through words?What if you cannot meet a handsome prince but a general
boy who are willing to keep your company no matter whether you are young or
getting old?
There is a girl
called Huang Xiaoxian,who has just broken up with her disloyal boyfriend,struggling
aganst a feel of depression;quite close to her there is a boy whose nickname
was Wang Xiaojian(created by Xiaoxian actually),who doesn’t say a word to
comfort her feeling but simply supports and probably loves her in an
unnoticeable way.It’s a story of a Chinese film Love is Not Blind(失恋33天),which makes an attempt to display a kind of relationship
right between boyfriend and ordinary friend.
The film is an adaptation
from a novel of the same name.As a matter of fact,the story is initially come
into public’s sight on the Chinese website Douban.com,posted
by a young girl called Bao Jingjing.It became popular immediately,and a good
many netizens on Douban website chased
after the lovely story and encourage the girl to continue finishing it.Then a
moving novel came into being followed by the film mentioned above.
As a work of
adaptation,the film is different from the original story for some parts.For
instance,the ending of the film exposes an indication that Xiaojian is in love
with Xiaoxian and is willing to care for her forever;nevertheless,in the novel,eventually
Xiaoxian remains to be a considerate and close friend but maybe not a boyfriend
in reality.Personally,though the novel’s ending shows an admirable relationship
between the boy and the girl,I would like to trust the ending in the film
rather than to drown myself in the sweet dream.
Having such a
close friend of the opposite sex is truly desirable,but it’s more dramatical
than being fantastic.I prefer to admit that Xiaojian devotes such a great deal
to Xiaoxian simply because he loves her.However,I do believe that close
friendship is the essential foundation of sweet affection,as Ms Khoo said this
Wednesday Morning.Thus,hope every girl has a Wang Xiaojian,who will always hold
her hands tightly no matter how much sadness the world has sent to her.
after reading your blog, i am excited. i want to find a boy like that. i always think that whether there will be a boy supporting me no matter what happen to me and will always accompany me. i am sure one day we will all find the boys that belong to us.
ReplyDeleteDear Mengnan,we are bound to get happiness as long as we keep being kind to the world,even if the boys guarding us never appear.
DeleteTaining you always have some new and profound ideas. I think you are a wise girl who face her life carefully with her heart.I have watched the movie and I agree with you that love is not blind if you chase it unremittingly.
ReplyDeleteTianhang, thank you for your kind consideration for me. You are also a mild-hearted boy who is special and love is not blind to you as well:)
DeleteYour view of the story is very special and excellent,and I do agree that love is based on close friendship and trust.Wish you meet a boy like Xiaojian in right time.
ReplyDeleteHope I can survive very well before encountering my Wang Xiaojian:)
DeleteThanks very much~~~