Today, we had a discussion about whether you, as a girl, would marry a blue-collar worker. Most of our girls gave the answer "no". But my answer is if I love him deeply, I won't care this kind of things about him. I want to say, if I love a person, nothing will disturb my love. So you can see, if I love a person, it is hard for me to not love him.
I want to say these things 4 years ago. These are just what I have thought in my mind. So please don't tease about what I am thinking, I am really serious. Since this is my tenderest part of feeling, I hope the person that read this blog can give me some suggestions about how to forget a person.
I am sure that all our classmates know a person that I have a special feeling towards. Just as the oral report and presentation I have given which topic is love. I do think that love is an amazing and attractive thing which make you feel both happy and sad. Yes, this person, I have been loved for 4 years. I know it is not rational to love someone in our age. But everyone in this age will have some kind of feelings more or less. So I want to know, can you feel my feeling? Is there a person in your heart the same to me? I just know that when I am not with him, I want to see him. Every time I passed my former classroom, the first person I want to find is he. And I will be happy every time I saw him. But similarly, during these 4 years, not only happiness was accompanied with me, but also the sorrow. I still remembered at the end of 2010, the tears have been shed for a whole night because of him. And later when I recalled that experience, I just felt it is not worth doing that for he is not the right person for me. So I decided to forget him. I have sent some messages about this decision many times but always face the fail. And my friends all know that every time I said that kind of things was just a way to show the moment of excited. And later when I came here, many friends told me that love in different areas is not stable. But I just ignore it because I just know I like him. Maybe I cannot say love, but still the feeling never passed away. And I really suffered a lot. So this time I really make my mind in forgetting him. I made a choice that I have never made before. I removed him from my special list in my QQ contact and put his number in the normal list for the first time. And after doing that, I am quite sure that this time I will delete him from my brain. However, it is so astonished that every time I took some steps, he seemed to know and would talk to me not like what he did normally. So that's why I cannot forget him successfully. Every time, he is the person who can destroy my confidence which I made a lot of effort to establish easily.
I just want to forget him and begin a new life. So who can tell me how can I do that?
Do not be so sad. You still have all off us. You can just let it go and there is no need try to forget him, because I think the harder you try, the fewer chances you will forget him. I believe your Mr.Right will be there for you sooner or later~
ReplyDeleteThank you. I will try my best to be with all of you. I know that you are still around me~ I am so fortunate that I can have many friends~
DeleteYou are brave to share this with us. To see you so cheerful even when you experienced sadness shows that you are a remarkable person. As Tianya puts it, there is no need to forget him but to let him go. Take heart. Continue to be the joyful and positive person that you are. You will be discovered by someone who will care and love you, like a hidden treasure.
ReplyDeletehaha,thank you very much, deep from my heart. I know sometimes it is hard to forget a person. And I always encourage myself that my Mr.Right is just there waiting for me. I am deeply moved by your words and Tianya's words. I am so happy that you can share my sorrow.
DeleteMaybe just as Prof Tay said, "Follow your heart." I think you cannot forget him because your heart don't want to, although your brain tell you that you should. So I think if you don't want to forget him from the heart, then don't try to do such things. Otherwise, you will remember him deeper. Therefore, just let time to change it. When you meet your real prince charming, you will forget the felling easily. By the way, try not to let this person cover your eyes and cannot see other boys' careness and admiration. Wish you happy~O(∩_∩)O~
ReplyDeleteyeah,it is really a good idea. time will change all the things. and i know that if my Mr. Right just appears and when my real happiness comes, i will forget him from my heart. however la, up to now, there is no such a person coming to my eye~ but i will try to see others in a more careful way~ and hope you can find your happiness too~~
Deleteit's never easy to forget a person, or i won't be so sad~just keep him deep in your heart, as a gift you treasure, after all the memory between you two is precious~when we have something beautiful but hard to gain, just put it in our heart
ReplyDeletetoday i just went to your domitory trying to tell you something. but you were not in at that time. there have been a long time since i published this blog. and during this period of time, there are really many things that happened. i just want to say, good friends are just good friends. if you want him to be your treasure, please, treat him as your friend. if he really worths your love, he will not do such things that will hurt a person so deeply. so i just want to tell you it is the same. if you cannot forget him, why not regard him as a friend who can congratulate you when you find your happiness? try to release. and that will really make you happy. xiaoxuan, fighting with me together. i am quite sure, we can find a person that suits us best.
DeleteMaybe you need not to forget him at all , because it is so hard to do that. Keep it in your mind and cherish it.It is a pure emotion and deserve cherishing.
ReplyDeletethank you. i know it is an amazing feeling. and up to now, after four years, i am not regret what i have done. but from now on, i just decided that i will begin my new life. he will be a most unforgetable memory in my mind, in my youth.
DeleteYou are a very excellent and lovely girl. So, never let a guy disturb your wish to love. To forget someone is easy when you are really determined. Tell yourself fiecelly and strongly to forget. Sometimes it is beneficial to be strict to ourselves.hah
ReplyDeletethank you flower Zi~ thank you for your words. i do feel that when comforting others, i can always see love thoroughly, but every time i am in love,i find it is extremely hard for me to see clearly. i think i should change myself, i should be rational. thank you~i will try your method~
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