An umbrella
Last Thursday,
I was the last person who got off the school bus and saw an umbrella on a seat,
I knew it belongs to one of my schoolmates. so, i picked it up. However i do
not know what i should do at first. It was impossible for me to ask for each
possible. suddenly, It occurs to me that i should shout aloud to make all of my
schoolmates know. I was ready to speak out. But when seeing so many people
walking in front, i retreated. I did not dare to speak very loud and it seemed embarrassed
to me. I struggled a few times but gave up at last. As a result, the umbrella
is still in my room now.
I feel very
regret about what I have not done now. why don't I just be brave to speak
loudly and all the problems can be solved. I think a lot about my behavior. And
i draw some conclusions. Actually, i do not dare to speak out is because i am
afraid of other people's views about me. I am afraid they will tease me and see
me as a monster. However, after thinking twice, i think my former thought is
totally wrong. It is an action of helping others if i can say loudly. So no one
will tease at me. They will only appreciate it that i am helpful.
I think my
conclusion may help someone who is very shy. They may think a lot about others'
opinion on them so that they close themselves in order to avoid being talked
about by others. But these redundant thoughts may be ridiculous if they think
deeply. So, my suggestion to those who are very shy and dare not to talk out is
that they should not think a lot about others' thoughts, instead they should
think more about the positive aspects of what they will say . maybe tomorrow, i
will take this umbrella and say out to all of my schoolmates to ask whose
umbrella it is.
You should be confident because you are excellent.In this way you will help both others and yourself.
ReplyDeleteUnder some circumstances, it seems not bad to be impulsive and do not consider too much. However, it is nice of you to have this though of helping others and reflect on your own behaviour. You have already done very well~
ReplyDeleteSometimes we do not need to think too much about what others may think of ourselves and it does not mean ignore others opinions at all. Hope all of us can be brave enough to do whatever we want to do and persue our dream.
ReplyDeleteAll your friends above have tried to support you, so all I can say is BE BRAVE. Go for it and tell the world. Let me know what happens. Good luck1
ReplyDeleteI have the same experience of you, but not the umbrella. I would try your method to think it positively. Besides, have you found the owner because I have lost two umbrellas during the bridging course.
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